How can they expect another individual to be your puppet? Will you be another person’s puppet? When you can’t do something, how can you expect someone else to do that? When you yourself don’t want to touch the fire, you expect your kid to do jump into it? When you are so damn reluctant to look out of your comfort zone, how do you expect your spouse to step out of it?
Monday, March 10, 2008
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Sweetheart..
I can understand ur frustrations.. but U cant question a custom (though I dnt think its a custom..) bcoz of a single person's problem, U are blaming the lifestyle of an entire community! I can give you an example for this post.. Lets take a simple example of the Game of Football...
As per your saying all are players.. all are important in team's win/lose... But As per your blog u r asking the Goalkeepr to play in the forward.. and asking wiseversa... U must understand, life is a game.. and each one has its defined roles... And Thats how we live our life.. there is nothing to feel bad or insulted in that.. I know you will come up with a very big argument..i will reply once i get ur stand n this.. again no fighting.. :)
Keep smiling..
::Jithu::
Oh please!!! A game is a game... Life is life!!! Do not mix both!!!
Game is a stuff where you have a hell lot of rules for even single move that you deem to make... See, in life, no rules work!! And if any life works on rules, then lets not call it life.. Its jus being a robot or something else... Life is something where someone is born to live & not to be ruled...
You cant compare a game with life cos in a game there is always win/loss... But in life, especially in relations it cant be applied... ALways a Win- Win situation only will work... Else its gonna be a complete mess.. Hope you understand my point...
Dont get offended by any of these...
Hey hey!! Chill dear... Dnt get too excited abt the game stuff.. whatever I just told is just for the sake of an example... and dont go by the word "Game" A life without a rule is like a ship without a captain! See.. The game is not ruled.. but played.. ,likewise the life is also lived not ruled.. but U cant call it a life when there is no rule... After all we are not animals to live our life without any rules.. those rules are called moral values... U cant expect a woman to get out out of the house and search for the thief when its midnight.. even if its mid day i dnt think a woman can handle this situation.. There may be some exceptions, but i am talking abt the majority... And I dnt believe in any kind of domination of a specific gender or something.. but there are some areas where one can excel or outplay than its opposite gender.. in those areas i wud say, we shud realize their supremacy and accept the truth... By doing so i dnt think someone is losing dignity or anything... And always, there is no offence in sharing/helping each other.. its all affection and cooperation...
Again no fighting...I am as cool as an ice cube.. :)
::Jithu::
Well!the point you are trying to bring out is very much clear from your message dear...:-) Moral values.. Ofcoursse are there...
But do you mean, a lady handling a theif comes under this 'moral value' category?
Sorry Jithu... For me I cant take this supremacy of a gender... But ofcourse i do admit & admire the supremacy of a person who is outstanding in his/her deeds & certainly desrves all kind of respect & value!! I dont do a gender discrimination.. But ofcourse personal values & talents are at their part...
And the main thing is that why do a person seek for supremacy? Why does he/she wants supremacy? Cant they just be individuals & love their fellow being likes human, instead of discrimainating male/female....?
If things happen this way, then we dnt need something called rules regulations and also police in this world.. U cant expect everything for a smooth ride dear.. The world is currupted.. and we have to face it with some of these suprimacies... And if u think, all shud love and respect others.. then this would be called as heaven.. but the sad thing is that , whn u say a world without any rules or regulations.. or no one to control.. anything can happen.. and i told abt handling the thief is just an example of different situation where the gender difference prove its suprimacy.. I am sure that u will never agree to this.. but still.. thats the fact... U can hope that love and respect in everyones life... but cant ask for.. becoz all are in the end of days are each individuals... and they have different thinking and different mentality.,. U cant ever expect them to come in our way..
have a great day!!
::Jithu::
Buddy,
I dont expect anything from anyone...And i hope people, if they aklso do the same then things will be much more easier...
And right/ wrong views are very personal...
I think i will have to give a detailed class for you...
Please wait, some thing is been prepared for you...
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