Attitude towards Life!!!

Is one of our attitude creating any problem for us in being happy? Is one of our thought not helping us to improve, the way we want us to....? What is that is being a hindrance to our path of success/happiness? Is that our attitude? Is that our some concepts(mis concepts) in life? Is it some prejudiced mentality which is blocking us to be happy?

Lets try to evaluate/analyze ourselves...
I have seen a lot of people complaining about the people around them... They brand the whole world bad!! But lets try to scrutunize this issue... Here exactly, whats troubling them? Aren't they seeing their selves in the whole world...??? They are scared that the whole world thinks about them, the way they think about the whole world!! You may stop worrying about the way people around you & what they think about you, provided you stop thinking about them... Let them lead their life.. You have yours... Help the individuals around you, whenever possible... Dont poke your nose into every single issue of their's... And I bet you will start feeling wonderful & gradually you will not be bothered about what the people around you have to say/think about you bcos you dont have time to think even that.. You are just being yourself... You are just totally minding your own business... I challenge everyone, once you adopt this attitude... Life will be so much easier!!!

Another thing!! You can see a lot of people suffering around you.... Many of them are in their current change just because of their attitude!! Some are so damn adamant(infact, i was one, but now changing. trying hard!! learning from mistakes) that they are even not ready to try something which is not harmful for them.. Why shall not one make some changes in their life, if they strongly feel that they are not able to be the person they want themselves to be? But, I would strongly recomment, nothing should be done on others force.. You have to feel..!! Your inner core should feel & crave for it!!

For your innerself to feel & crave for it, you should sit & think(when ever you get time) where you went wrong... Where could have you improved? Just try to adopt & accept some changes which you yourself think is good for you!!! Again I insists not to do anythinglike this on any ones compulsion... Bcoz then you become a puppet.. A robot which does things as programed... Life lacks there!!

Having said all these, I will say that no one is eligible to judge, whats right & whats wrong!!
No one Can!!! Right & Wrong are strictly personal!!!

Adopting some changes, which will give you long term happiness are good for ya!!! What do you think? But its you who have to decide, that what is right & what is good for you!!

Dont do anything to please anyone or to make others happy!!! But to make yourself happy!! You have to be happy in a healthy way, making less damage to beings around you!! You cant guarantee that your deeds doesnt hurt anyone... Tell me, can an elephant guarantee that it will not hurt any creature(interntionally or not) bcos on its journey it might have killed atleast an ant while it was walking.. Ofcourse unintentionally!!! Which is unevitable!! Thats all there in life!!

Birth & Death, two sides of a coin!! Its a universal fact!! But all the while you live try to do what ever your heart strongly wants to... Mean while I want you to be courageous enough to accept to accept what ever comes.... Well!! Thats what is life is about!!! Expect the unexpected!!!

What is love?

Love? Is there something like that? Are we becoming strong individuals in love? Or are we just dependants? In love aren't we just depending some one for our happiness...?

Just imagine.. Life is ours.. Happiness, is an attitude that we have to maintain towards life... So.. Isn't it complete dependancy when we say that I can be happy only if he/she is there with me...

Just imagine, should we depend on another person for giving our self some happiness.. Nature has blessed us with her tremendous resourse & beauty for us to divert our concentration in case we go off-track!!

In love, you are directly or indirectly depending another person for some kinda happiness.. You say that you are finding happiness & all!! But You are,in some way or the other, depending the other person for some happiness. Aren't you? For truly answering this you have to be courageous enough to think out of your mind set!!!

Just think why do I love one? Just for being happy? Happiness for whom? For me? If that happiness is for me? Then why am not happy when am alone? Why have i got to depend on another person for happiness?

So why depending on another individual for your self to be happy? "Happiness is not the possession of good/desired things. Its just an attitude".