Saturday, March 15, 2008

A poor guy!!!

Hmmm... Let me tell a story of one of dearest friend, who is a professional.. Who has got some peculiar characters... Well!! I haven't seen any other guy/gal like this.. Ofcourse he is unique!! :-)

Mr. Sarvesh & Ms. Gauri were in love with each other and after several chaos in their respective family, they some how convinced their parents for the marriage.. After all, even their parents couldnt find anything wrong in the relationship. Sarvesh was a professional, having his own office and moreover from a good family!! Gauri too a well educated girl, done her masters, daughter of a land lord, who had 2 more daughters... Gauri was very much into studies from her childhood... She used to dream about getting into a job, being independent and all.. And her parents were also so supportive that they allowed her to study to the level she wanted(during 1960s-70s)...

After their wedding, honeymoon period went well(as usual)!! And suddenly Sarvesh's insecurity feeling & ego started increasing... After few month's Gauri was pregnant.. Every one in there faily were so damn happy... Sarvesh's happiness didnt have a boundary...

Finally a baby boy was born... He was named Abhinav... Sarvesh started loving Abhinav like crazy... Even more than Gauri.. He was least interested to talk to Gauri... And if he happened to talk to Gauri, that would be definetly to brainwash her to quit her job...

Well, she stuck to her decision of continuing with her job.. And ofcourse she loved her son too much, but then Abhinav was quite close to his dad bcos Sarvesh used fulfill every wish of Abhinav; no matter what they are... He woulndt even think that whether his deeds are gonna spoil his son & his life..

He was too possessive about his son...Basically, he was using him as a weapon against Gauri.. A kind of cheap revenge... Hmmm.. Well, Gauri was very happy with the dad-son relationship as thats what every mom would ultimately want...

His father made him his slave & Abhinav got addicted to his dad... He couldnt stay for a while without calling his dad... His dad didnt even allow him to ride a bicycle, made it a point to make it clear that abhinav understands it as his love , care & possessiveness.. whereas Sarvesh was making him kind of dependant...

Well, Abhinav was kept away from Gals(or rather he preffered staying away from them). He hated his mother and that too Big Time Well Sarvesh's mom, Gauri's mom in law made it a point to make the most of this situation... But at the same time Abhinav managed to get the attension & sympathy of every single lady he mingled with by telling them the story of his workoholic mom, a mom who never loved him & all!!

This Abhinav got married to Neha who was a professional. This guy entered into his new life with a perspective that all women are like his mom.. So we need to keep them under us... We need show that we are the boss!! He used to call his dad & cry for every silly issue between him & his wife, which was not expected from a man!! More over he didnt want Neha to work.. He made her life hell... Started seeing his mom in her & started fighting/harrassing her physically & mentally for each & every issue...

His mom tried to sort this issue out, but then he wouldnt pick his call or he wouldnt talk ot his mom only...

Finally, friends, let me tell you, he screwed his life Big Time... I really cant see him sad... He went through hell.. I guess he loved her & even she love him... But then this kind of behavior which wasnt expected from such a mature person... They are divorced.... Now, neither he nor she is happy!!!

Well, his dad must be quite happy!!!

Guys & Gals, this is not a cooked up story... This is a story of my dear friend Abhinav(name ofcourse is not the same)

3 comments:

Unknown said...

Well it is an interesting tale of middle class India.

I hope everyone lived happily thereafter...to the extent possible.

I wonder what was the fate of the poor girl who got married to this young guy. What are her options in life ?

Anonymous said...

Yes, every one should live happily........

You dont have to have sympathy for her... SHe is strong enough! She have a lot of options in life.. She will move on... Will live happily.. :-)

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