Only when they expect others to do things in a way and mean while things pop up in a different manner.
When does a parent get hurt? When they expect their young ones to obey them & their young one doesn’t do that. Instead they revolt telling them “Mom/Dad, please… I am not a kid any more. I know to do thing. Please, it’s my life”
When does a husband/wife get hurt? Its only when they expect their wife to behave in a way, but things turn the other way round.
But if you view these things in another way, you can see that all these people are hurt only because of themselves & not any one else. The dad allows his child to hurt him by expecting a lot from him. The wife gets disappointed only when she allows her husband to hurt her, by expecting a lot from him & she finds that he doesn’t fulfil her expectations.
When will people realize that it’s EXPECTATION which leads to every distress!! Nothing else!! EXPECTATION!! EXPECTATION!! EXPECTATION!!
I wonder, when will these people grow up?
Have anybody watched a dog’s love towards its master? Does it love his master with some expectation? Even if he is not fed for one day, he won’t stop swaying his tail in enthusiasm when he sees his beloved master. It just loves unconditionally!
At the same time, just check out the behaviour of a human!! If a man doesn’t get food for one time, his so called “beloved wife”, heavens save her!! Doesn’t a kid turn the home upside down if his one wish is not fulfil where as the rest 99 are done?
Monday, March 10, 2008
§ But when do people get hurt?
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The E-R gap causes most of the problems in a relationship. Only proper communication can solve it.
Exactly Kenney!! I completely agree.... But proper communication is just a medicine to cure this disease...
What i am trying is to develop immunity in people so that I can prevert spreading of this...
And if spread.. I completeely agree... Only proper communication is the vaccine!!!
Faith and belief. Thats where the root of every evil lies.
What small good dog On a foto
I am really sorry dear friend.. I dnt agree with you on this… In life you can have expectations.. in fact you should have.. It goes the other way when the expectations exceed their limits…
How could you tell a parent who brought up their child since he/she was born, not to expect anything? Any expectation within the limit is perfectly fine and I totally agree.. If my parents asks me not to get into any bad habits or bad company of friends, for me its totally acceptable. If they ask me not marry anybody, then it’s a different story. But if they really love me, ( I am sure that they do) they will never ask for anything which will hurt me.. So for me, it’s the kind of expectation we have which makes the difference than keeping any expectations.
And I dnt like the way U are pin pointing a single incident and blaming the entire husband-wife relationship.. See it is the problem with that GUY or his family.. There may be hell lots of other issues which makes that INDIVIDUAL husband to behave so maybe he is sick.. but its just an single incident.. Thre are many more families who live their life so happily.. Why don’t you see those??
My sincere request to u is that – please stop finding the problems and to blame the entire human kind, instead try to see the happier side of life and feel happy…
Again no hard feelings.. I just pen down my thoughts… Please dnt take it to ur heart…
Keep smiling..
::Jithu::
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