Rebel? Who is he?

"Rebel"... Who is that? How come a rebel take birth on the earth's surface? Is a rebel a product of a Rebel dad & Rebel mom? Nope!!! He/She is a person, ofcourse not like everyone (else he/she wouldnt have been called a Rebel)... They find the current settings of the society very odd, strange!! And if they show the courage to tell that openly then there a Rebel is born.. Well I would say that a Rebel is a decent title given.. But sometimes they are branded as Insanes...!! If he/she questions the present status of the society or rules, then the next moment he/she is branded!!

Well!! Every philosopher,sceintist, innovator was branded rebel/crazy/insane and all!!! But then, what happened? They came up with one new turn in the whole worlds life!! Didnt they? Ofcourse they did!! Well!! They didnt bother what people thinks about them.. If they would have thought all those craps, then they wouldnt have made such dashing and wonderful changes in everyones life!!

And what do society do with such people? When they feel that the rules they have built are gonna be broken, are not gonna influence people an more, then they just get rid off this so called Rebel!!

Isnt it the same what happened with Socrates? He was poisned by the so called society for nbeing truthfull, for spreading his courageous thoughts & views among the people!! They felt that the young generation were getting influenced by his teachings & thoughts!!
Then they give him 3 options:

1. Stop giving lessons, stop teaching- which he refused
2. leave this village and go to the next village- which he refused saying that would be cowardice
3. have poison-which he accepted haply saying that he is dieying for a noble cause.

But now!! His speeches, views & thoughts are respected all over the world...

People!! He was a so called Rebel!! Well, atleast I sincerely wish that people dont make a mistake!!

Please people.. Wake up!!!

A poor guy!!!

Hmmm... Let me tell a story of one of dearest friend, who is a professional.. Who has got some peculiar characters... Well!! I haven't seen any other guy/gal like this.. Ofcourse he is unique!! :-)

Mr. Sarvesh & Ms. Gauri were in love with each other and after several chaos in their respective family, they some how convinced their parents for the marriage.. After all, even their parents couldnt find anything wrong in the relationship. Sarvesh was a professional, having his own office and moreover from a good family!! Gauri too a well educated girl, done her masters, daughter of a land lord, who had 2 more daughters... Gauri was very much into studies from her childhood... She used to dream about getting into a job, being independent and all.. And her parents were also so supportive that they allowed her to study to the level she wanted(during 1960s-70s)...

After their wedding, honeymoon period went well(as usual)!! And suddenly Sarvesh's insecurity feeling & ego started increasing... After few month's Gauri was pregnant.. Every one in there faily were so damn happy... Sarvesh's happiness didnt have a boundary...

Finally a baby boy was born... He was named Abhinav... Sarvesh started loving Abhinav like crazy... Even more than Gauri.. He was least interested to talk to Gauri... And if he happened to talk to Gauri, that would be definetly to brainwash her to quit her job...

Well, she stuck to her decision of continuing with her job.. And ofcourse she loved her son too much, but then Abhinav was quite close to his dad bcos Sarvesh used fulfill every wish of Abhinav; no matter what they are... He woulndt even think that whether his deeds are gonna spoil his son & his life..

He was too possessive about his son...Basically, he was using him as a weapon against Gauri.. A kind of cheap revenge... Hmmm.. Well, Gauri was very happy with the dad-son relationship as thats what every mom would ultimately want...

His father made him his slave & Abhinav got addicted to his dad... He couldnt stay for a while without calling his dad... His dad didnt even allow him to ride a bicycle, made it a point to make it clear that abhinav understands it as his love , care & possessiveness.. whereas Sarvesh was making him kind of dependant...

Well, Abhinav was kept away from Gals(or rather he preffered staying away from them). He hated his mother and that too Big Time Well Sarvesh's mom, Gauri's mom in law made it a point to make the most of this situation... But at the same time Abhinav managed to get the attension & sympathy of every single lady he mingled with by telling them the story of his workoholic mom, a mom who never loved him & all!!

This Abhinav got married to Neha who was a professional. This guy entered into his new life with a perspective that all women are like his mom.. So we need to keep them under us... We need show that we are the boss!! He used to call his dad & cry for every silly issue between him & his wife, which was not expected from a man!! More over he didnt want Neha to work.. He made her life hell... Started seeing his mom in her & started fighting/harrassing her physically & mentally for each & every issue...

His mom tried to sort this issue out, but then he wouldnt pick his call or he wouldnt talk ot his mom only...

Finally, friends, let me tell you, he screwed his life Big Time... I really cant see him sad... He went through hell.. I guess he loved her & even she love him... But then this kind of behavior which wasnt expected from such a mature person... They are divorced.... Now, neither he nor she is happy!!!

Well, his dad must be quite happy!!!

Guys & Gals, this is not a cooked up story... This is a story of my dear friend Abhinav(name ofcourse is not the same)

Attitude towards Life!!!

Is one of our attitude creating any problem for us in being happy? Is one of our thought not helping us to improve, the way we want us to....? What is that is being a hindrance to our path of success/happiness? Is that our attitude? Is that our some concepts(mis concepts) in life? Is it some prejudiced mentality which is blocking us to be happy?

Lets try to evaluate/analyze ourselves...
I have seen a lot of people complaining about the people around them... They brand the whole world bad!! But lets try to scrutunize this issue... Here exactly, whats troubling them? Aren't they seeing their selves in the whole world...??? They are scared that the whole world thinks about them, the way they think about the whole world!! You may stop worrying about the way people around you & what they think about you, provided you stop thinking about them... Let them lead their life.. You have yours... Help the individuals around you, whenever possible... Dont poke your nose into every single issue of their's... And I bet you will start feeling wonderful & gradually you will not be bothered about what the people around you have to say/think about you bcos you dont have time to think even that.. You are just being yourself... You are just totally minding your own business... I challenge everyone, once you adopt this attitude... Life will be so much easier!!!

Another thing!! You can see a lot of people suffering around you.... Many of them are in their current change just because of their attitude!! Some are so damn adamant(infact, i was one, but now changing. trying hard!! learning from mistakes) that they are even not ready to try something which is not harmful for them.. Why shall not one make some changes in their life, if they strongly feel that they are not able to be the person they want themselves to be? But, I would strongly recomment, nothing should be done on others force.. You have to feel..!! Your inner core should feel & crave for it!!

For your innerself to feel & crave for it, you should sit & think(when ever you get time) where you went wrong... Where could have you improved? Just try to adopt & accept some changes which you yourself think is good for you!!! Again I insists not to do anythinglike this on any ones compulsion... Bcoz then you become a puppet.. A robot which does things as programed... Life lacks there!!

Having said all these, I will say that no one is eligible to judge, whats right & whats wrong!!
No one Can!!! Right & Wrong are strictly personal!!!

Adopting some changes, which will give you long term happiness are good for ya!!! What do you think? But its you who have to decide, that what is right & what is good for you!!

Dont do anything to please anyone or to make others happy!!! But to make yourself happy!! You have to be happy in a healthy way, making less damage to beings around you!! You cant guarantee that your deeds doesnt hurt anyone... Tell me, can an elephant guarantee that it will not hurt any creature(interntionally or not) bcos on its journey it might have killed atleast an ant while it was walking.. Ofcourse unintentionally!!! Which is unevitable!! Thats all there in life!!

Birth & Death, two sides of a coin!! Its a universal fact!! But all the while you live try to do what ever your heart strongly wants to... Mean while I want you to be courageous enough to accept to accept what ever comes.... Well!! Thats what is life is about!!! Expect the unexpected!!!

What is love?

Love? Is there something like that? Are we becoming strong individuals in love? Or are we just dependants? In love aren't we just depending some one for our happiness...?

Just imagine.. Life is ours.. Happiness, is an attitude that we have to maintain towards life... So.. Isn't it complete dependancy when we say that I can be happy only if he/she is there with me...

Just imagine, should we depend on another person for giving our self some happiness.. Nature has blessed us with her tremendous resourse & beauty for us to divert our concentration in case we go off-track!!

In love, you are directly or indirectly depending another person for some kinda happiness.. You say that you are finding happiness & all!! But You are,in some way or the other, depending the other person for some happiness. Aren't you? For truly answering this you have to be courageous enough to think out of your mind set!!!

Just think why do I love one? Just for being happy? Happiness for whom? For me? If that happiness is for me? Then why am not happy when am alone? Why have i got to depend on another person for happiness?

So why depending on another individual for your self to be happy? "Happiness is not the possession of good/desired things. Its just an attitude".

A strange behaviour of our society, which annoys me..

Caste!! Racial discrimination!! Higher caste/ Lower caste!!

What's all these about? Boy!!! You are just lower to Your Higher Self(GOD, SUPREME POWER)!! Even that thought is also not cent percent true!! You have the Higher self in you!! Everyone has!! You are not under than any other creation of him... He is the creator... For him, all his creations are equal!! Then who are we to make a discrimination in that? Isn't it complete crap?

For a parent, all his/her children are at the same place(ideally)... How will they discriminate among them.. Ofcourse the basic discrimination so as to distinguish each individual is there...
Like, this is A & this is B.. But how can A tell to B that "look am his best creation,so am superior to you." ? Does that make any sense? I dont think so....

Ofcourse I understand that an apple is an apple & an orange is an orange... I can neither say that apple is superior to orange nor vice versa... They are all unique... Even I would say that we do not have right to compare 2 apples or 2 oranges... Or even we cant declare that this is better than that...

This tendency of discrimination, is found decreasing, now a day(Thank God!!) But has not fully vanished!! I really dont know how do people dare to judge/comment/accuse on the Supreme power's creations!!! Hilarious!!! :)

Life in a Metro!!

She is a beauty from B'lore!!!

I was astonished seeing her blossoming in such a way! She spread fragrance, warmth to everyone.. No matter whether they cared about her or not?

My pal's scribbling note....

A poem by one from my beloved friend!!! Just wanna give you a slight intro abt her.. She is lovable soul who just lives on prayers, church & bible.. Nothing means more to her.. When she was left alone in life, she discovered a new friend. The poet in her.. She is just Simply Marvellous!! A poor soul who just want everyone to be happy!!! Another soul who follows "Live & Let Live" principle.

Her poem for you..........

Worries wil never com to an end,

Neither happiness be ter till the end,

Play the game where ever it takes

Make a change 4 the world is the best

Live like a bird in the sky

walk lik child wit its innocent smile

mile never last 4 the one who is scared

make the diff wer ever it takes u

Best wil com we never knows

wait 4 a while wit the best sense

never give up til the best comes

wait n wait till it comes

with the power of glory it will come.

By,

Buddy.

Wanna see her profile? Here you go>>>http://sinducsam.blogspot.com/

§ What’s gone completely wrong with the human race?

How can they expect another individual to be your puppet? Will you be another person’s puppet? When you can’t do something, how can you expect someone else to do that? When you yourself don’t want to touch the fire, you expect your kid to do jump into it? When you are so damn reluctant to look out of your comfort zone, how do you expect your spouse to step out of it?

§ But when do people get hurt?

Only when they expect others to do things in a way and mean while things pop up in a different manner.

When does a parent get hurt? When they expect their young ones to obey them & their young one doesn’t do that. Instead they revolt telling them “Mom/Dad, please… I am not a kid any more. I know to do thing. Please, it’s my life”

When does a husband/wife get hurt? Its only when they expect their wife to behave in a way, but things turn the other way round.

But if you view these things in another way, you can see that all these people are hurt only because of themselves & not any one else. The dad allows his child to hurt him by expecting a lot from him. The wife gets disappointed only when she allows her husband to hurt her, by expecting a lot from him & she finds that he doesn’t fulfil her expectations.

When will people realize that it’s EXPECTATION which leads to every distress!! Nothing else!! EXPECTATION!! EXPECTATION!! EXPECTATION!!

I wonder, when will these people grow up?

Have anybody watched a dog’s love towards its master? Does it love his master with some expectation? Even if he is not fed for one day, he won’t stop swaying his tail in enthusiasm when he sees his beloved master. It just loves unconditionally!

At the same time, just check out the behaviour of a human!! If a man doesn’t get food for one time, his so called “beloved wife”, heavens save her!! Doesn’t a kid turn the home upside down if his one wish is not fulfil where as the rest 99 are done?

§ Hindrance for this?

What do you think is the biggest hindrance for people to live & let others live is nothing but “SOCIETY”. But people, please tell me, what is this society? Isn’t just a group containing the so called “Educated & Cultured” individuals who are badly struck in misery? I must say, they are not suffering because of misery. They are enjoying their misery!!

So this Society set certain rules not even thinking that these rules can come as a problem for them selves…They try to impose the same on every individual!! Every child! Every youngster! Every single soul!!

They don’t even let animals escape!! I would say its kinda sadistic pleasure that they experience when they see people going through the same misery which they went through, once in their life time!! Do they believe that it’s a kind of pain that every individual, right from his birth, should go through!!

Even if they have a lot of options to escape from this, neither will they escape from this viscous circle, nor will they let any one to escape… I must say that it’s a combination of masochism & sadism.

If rules are made to restrict people from having healthy fun, why following such rules? Does that make any sense? I would say “No”. To hell with those rules that restricts a baby to smile innocently! To hell with those customs that prevents a flower from blossoming & spreading its fragrance!!

These all are Gifts of God! And why should you obey something which doesn’t allow you to enjoy the God given gifts!! Having said that, I completely agree to the point that there must be a limit for everything… But does that mean, you complete are to be kept away from all happiness that you deserve. You are meant to enjoy your life completely. God has given all of us a short span of time on earth to live or lives the way we want it to, provided that doesn’t hurt anyone.

Live & let live….

Live & let live…. That has been my principle in life…. But being very frank I have not followed this lot of times… Have created a hell lot of problems around me… Well!! That’s all I could do at that time!!!

But, believe me… I want it to happen & now I try to walk my talk!!

Welcome Folks!!!

Hi there... You have now stepped into a page where you might find the things turning upside down, from the way you have been seeing things… Here it’s a complete 180o angle change in things which you see.. You might find some of the ideas (sometimes ALL) difficult to digest.
Well! Well!! People, I have a request!! Those who cant think openly, those who cant think courageously, those who cant accept the fact that they too can go wrong, those who don’t want to change the so called customs & all, those who are not at all familiar of the process of ‘getting into ones shoes’, those who don’t want to change anything around them just because they are brought up in such a way & they don’t want to think in another angle, those who don’t dare to speak out loud when they think that something completely wrong is going around them and watch it as a silent spectator….. I would suggest those people, NOT to go through my thought & views as I strictly believe that only those who have at least any of the above mentioned qualities only can see my whole point… Else it’s a complete waste of time….