Decisions

I have wondered a lot how can u just take some major decisions of ur life just in seconds or minutes? Specially some decisions like marrying a person or leaving a person because u guys werent compatible enough. May be just because u dint like the other persons behaviou towards you... Or may be they didnt react the way u expected them to... Aint all this silly stuffs to make decisions??

If u dont feel that the other person is not meeting your expectation, you have to understand that you're expecting too much.... And may be just quiting that would make ur life easier...

I dont know.... I have seen & experienced this situation... The moment you realise that you guys miss the "compatibility" you expected to be there, then a self realisation makes life easier... :)

As in, when u realise that you sibling, who was born & brought up in the same way as u were, have fights with you or have difference in opinion with u, how can u expect someone else, to meet your expectation...? Silly isnt it?

First love aint your greatest love!!!

Well!! Am being very honest here...!! I have heard everybody saying that your first love is your "the big love" in your life...!! I think, that ain't the case every time...!!

It can be a bit special, cos he/she is the person who helped you to feel ur feelings, your ripeness of adolescence, who made u think that you can dream the way u never used to... ;)

From my personal experience & from couple of other experiences, I realized that, even if you first love was special, but u have had better love relationships. And its kind of true that its just cos ur first love wasn't perfect(in some or the other way) that you ended up in a second or further relationships. Isn't right?

And most of us, forget the so called first love when we meet a better person(as per our criteria) or when we pass a relation which involves a satisfactory or overwhelming sex relation...

I never thought that I could forget my first love just like that, but the moment vaava entered my life, my world turned upside down. I became a new person. Vaava was the person of my dreams... And making love has not turned up so beautiful ever since...

:)